Tamara Palmer

The Power of Forgiveness Cake

Tamara Palmer
The Power of Forgiveness Cake

BY TAMARA PALMER

Many desserts bring me to the brink of tears, but Azalina Eusope’s Forgiveness Cake at Mahila got the water actually flowing.

Azalina explained as she was plating the cake that it was something that her mother made once a year, and it had a profound effect on her life. She told us that she was raised by her grandmother in Malaysia because her mother wanted her first-born to be a boy instead of a girl, and she would only see her mother once a year. Her mother didn’t communicate with her otherwise.

One day that her mother made this cake, Azalina’s heart flooded with forgiveness when she tasted it.

“I told myself, no matter what, I forgive my mother,” Azalina said.

Azalina has added her own beautiful touches to the cake for her restaurant. Though she recently closed one space in San Francisco (Azalina’s Malaysian inside The Market on Market), Mahila (which means “becoming a woman”) stays busy and Azalina’s got expansion plans in Oakland. Life is good.

Forgiveness Cake: sugee cake with coconut kaya jam

Forgiveness Cake: sugee cake with coconut kaya jam

Watch Azalina’s explanation of the dessert thanks to a series of short videos shot by our friend Yiying Lu.

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Azalina tells us the story behind her signiture desert - the Forgiveness Cake, homemade sugee cake with coconut jam / Kaya. ❤️🥧 Last photo by @teemoney415 Thank you 💖 I have known chef Azalina Eusope, a 5th-generation street-food vendor of Mamak descent, a Tamil Muslim tribe in Malaysia descended from South Indians, for more than five years, since I moved to San Francisco from Sydney. Whenever I crave for home-made fried chickens or laksa noodle soup, her restaurant Azalina’s is my to-go place. Azalina is probably one of the most hardworking women entrepreneurs I know. She has 2-3 hours every day since she started her business for the last ten years. Her creativity, tenacity, and kind-hearted spirit was always an inspiration to me. Among her fans, she can count Barack Obama, for whom she cooked while he was still in office, the late Anthony Bourdain, and Lin Manuel-Miranda, who came to eat at her food stall repeatedly while he was in town for the first Hamilton tour. Last year, Azalina opened the Mahila, her new restaurant in Noe Valley, where she gets to expand beyond the street food that she began making out of homesickness ten years ago, out of the kitchen at La Cocina. I finally got the chance to try the new menus, thanks to @teemoney415! #asian #asia #cuisine #indian #malaysia #malaysianfood #food #sfeats #SF #restaurants #eat #foodporn #sanfrancisco #foodblogger #dinner #dine #cake #desert #sweet #story #marmak

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The mural in Mahila’s entryway

The mural in Mahila’s entryway

The hugging picture up top is of Azalina and Yiying — she and I were in tears by the end of Azalina’s story.

Mahila, 1320 Castro Street, San Francisco